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从挑逗方式看你的情场老练指数

2012-05-05 10:08 来源:http://article.yeeyan.org/view/ncucf/151795

(路透社)——挑逗可不仅仅是为了好玩,据一项新的研究表明一段成功的恋爱史相当程度上取决于你对自己特有的“挑逗风格”的理解。
Whether or not you prefer sidling up to a stranger in a bar or you'd rather sit back and wait for an object of attraction to approach are distinctions that once recognized can help people navigate the rocky seas of relationships, according to Jeffrey Hall, assistant professor of communication studies at the University of Kansas.
你是喜欢在酒吧里偷偷的靠近你心仪的异性,还是更愿意坐在某个角落守株待兔,静候佳人?认清楚你自己的这些特征,可以很好的帮助你驾驭桀骜难驯的爱情之舟——据堪萨斯大学交际研究学助理教授Jeffrey Hall所言。

Hall recently completed a study into styles of flirting among dating adults, surveying more than 5,100 people regarding their methods of communicating romantic interest.
Hall最近完成了一项针对成年人约会期间的挑逗风格的研究,超过5100名被调查对象叙述了他们传达自己爱情信号的方式。
"Knowing something about the way you communicate attraction says something about challenges you might have had in your past dating life," Hall said. "Hopefully, this awareness can help people avoid those mistakes and succeed in courtship."
“通过了解你表达自己意图的方式,就可以看出你以前在约会过程中会碰到什么样问题,”Hall称。“幸好,只要察觉出来,以后这种错误就可以避免,你也能在求爱过程中一路畅通。”

Hall said there are essentially five styles of flirting: physical, traditional, polite, sincere and playful.
Hall表示从本质上划分,挑逗风格可以分成五种:充满情欲的,传统的,有礼貌的,真诚的以及逢场作戏的。

In physical flirting, people express their sexual interest in a potential partner and, he says, often quickly can develop the relationships, have more sexual chemistry and have a greater emotional connection to their partners.
在充满情欲的挑逗风格中,人们会直截了当地对潜在的另一半表达那种性意识,两人关系通常进展神速,其中夹杂了比较多的性吸引,情感上的联系也会因此更多。

Traditional flirts tend to believe that men should make the first moves, with women assuming more passive roles. Both sexes comfortable with this style seem to prefer more "intimate" dating scenes,, he said.
传统的挑逗风格比较倾向于女人保持矜持,男人迈开第一步。这种风格的男女双方都更偏好私密一点的约会场景。

There are many people whose flirting styles fall into the category of "playful" and are aimed largely at enhancing their own self-esteem, Hall said. These people are less likely to have lasting and meaningful relationships, he added.
也有很多人的挑逗风格,要被归类到“逢场作戏”的,他们只是想通过挑逗对方增强自己的自信。这些人往往都是玩玩而已,不会发展出什么认真的关系来。

"In some ways, the very early part of developing relationships is important to the success of long-term relationships, including marriages," he said.
“在某些方面,早期的恋爱关系的发展决定了两人关系的长远走向,包括最终能否修成正果。”

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